Surrogacy is a coordinated medical and legal process that allows intended parents to have a child with the help of a third person who carries the pregnancy. When people ask, “ whats a surrogate,” they usually mean a gestational carrier—someone who becomes pregnant through in vitro fertilization (IVF) using embryos created from the intended parents’ or donors’ eggs and sperm. Traditional surrogacy, where the carrier’s own egg is used, is rare and legally complex.
The journey begins with screening. Intended parents and potential carriers undergo medical exams, psychological evaluations, and background checks.
Once matched—either through an agency or independently—both sides sign contracts that define compensation, decision-making authority during pregnancy, confidentiality, and parentage rights. Lawyers experienced in reproductive law are essential so the agreement complies with state regulations and protects everyone’s interests.
IVF follows: eggs are retrieved, fertilized in a lab, and embryos are transferred to the carrier’s uterus. Throughout pregnancy, the carrier attends routine prenatal visits while the intended parents stay informed, often joining appointments virtually or in person. Insurance, travel costs, and contingency plans for complications are addressed up front to prevent disputes later.
Before birth, attorneys secure pre- or post-birth parentage orders so the intended parents’ names appear on the birth certificate. After delivery, medical follow-ups for both baby and carrier ensure a healthy transition. Clear communication, documented expectations, and emotional support for all parties keep the focus on welcoming a child into a prepared, loving home.
